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When Your Nervous System’s Engine Is Running Hot for Too Long
I was eleven the first time I burned out, though I wouldn't have a name for it for another forty-five years. That pattern — overload, collapse, effortful recovery, repeat — ran for the next four and a half decades. Here's what was actually happening, and what the research says about why it keeps happening to so many of us.
The Wrong Planet Goes to Work: Neurodivergence, employment, and why the system isn’t built for us
In middle school, a career aptitude test told me I should go into sales or retail management. I'm now a therapist who sees 45-55 neurodivergent clients a week from a home office, with my old dog snoring in the corner. It took forty years and several collapsed careers to get here.
This piece is about the wrong planet and its job market — why work is so hard for so many of us, what the data says, what happens when you can't get past the interview, and what might actually help. Real talk. Some hope. A hobbit hole at the end.